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Here’s where we share our thoughts, insights, and experiences on all things autism and ADHD. From quick, practical reads to deeper, thought-provoking articles, we cover a wide range of topics that matter to neurodivergent individuals, their families, and the professionals who support them.
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Mental health, Identity and ADHD
If you have a teenager who is both ADHD and LGBTQIA+, you might notice that anxiety affects them more than it does other teens. This is real. There are several reasons your teen may feel more stressed than their peers, and understanding these reasons is the first step to helping them. This increased emotional sensitivity comes from the brain, not from choice. Everyday challenges like fitting in, making friends, and keeping up with schoolwork feel even more intense. When you a
Feb 14


When ADHD gets mixed up with mental health symptoms
This week is Children’s Mental Health Week, a reminder that a lot of struggling children are not “naughty”, “lazy”, or “too emotional.” All too often, neurodevelopmental conditions are misdiagnosed as mental health conditions such as depression or anxiety. Children and young people (and adults) do display symptoms of these conditions, and many are worthy of a diagnosis. However, what is often missed is the root cause of these symptoms. Maybe your child is prescribed anti-depr
Feb 10


If Your Child Doesn’t Get Their First Choice School
It can be hard when you open that email and see your child wasn’t offered a place at the school you had your heart set on. When your child is autistic or has ADHD, and has an EHCP, choosing a school isn’t just about Ofsted ratings. It’s about safety, understanding, and the right fit. Visiting schools, even when they’re not your first pick, can still reveal possibilities. You might want to visit alone first, especially if your child finds new environments overwhelming. When th
Feb 5


Talking to family about autism
Helping family understand your autistic child can be a challenge. Whether your child has an intellectual disability or not, there’s often a lot of confusion, assumptions, and well-meaning—but unhelpful—comments. When your child doesn’t have an intellectual disability, people might say, “But they seem so normal.” That’s because many autistic children mask their struggles. They may appear calm on the outside while battling sensory overload or anxiety inside. Explain that autism
Jan 27


Not anti-social, just differently social.
Socialising can be confusing and exhausting for many autistic children. This doesn’t mean they’re antisocial—they're differently social. It's especially important to remember this for children without intellectual disabilities, as they can often be expected to cope better than they actually can. Instead of pushing for conventional social milestones, focus on your child's individual capacity for connection. One meaningful friendship that aligns with their interests can be far
Jan 20


All things have their place...
As Christmas approaches, we will be re sharing some posts from the last few years on how to prepare and support your child through the holiday festive season. We are kicking things off with this one! It's getting to the time of year where there are festive decorations and lights covering the streets. I have to admit I crave the visual stimulation of certain Christmas lights and last year enjoyed three outings to various nearby Christmas light trails. I can still visualise som
Nov 10, 2025


Why ABA is so damaging
Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) was once considered the "gold standard" “treatment” for autism, but many autistic adults and advocates argue it causes significant psychological harm. This is especially true given how autism cannot and does not need to be treated at all. ABA's main goal is to make autistic children appear "normal" by stopping natural autistic behaviours like stimming, and teaching them to behave like neurotypicals. This teaches autistic children that their na
Nov 5, 2025


ADHD Isn't Always Loud - Sometimes, It's Invisible
When most people think of ADHD, they picture high energy, impulsivity, or visible restlessness in the classroom. But for many students, especially those with inattentive or combined-type ADHD, the struggle looks very different. These students may appear quiet, hardworking, or even “model” pupils. They often go unnoticed because they spend so much energy trying to meet expectations, follow the rules, and avoid making mistakes. But behind the scenes, they’re masking enormous in
Oct 26, 2025


Sensory processing and mealtimes
Mealtimes can be one of the most challenging parts of the day for many families with autistic children. What’s often misunderstood is...
Sep 19, 2025


Supporting a child with auditory processing disorder
When your child struggles to understand spoken instructions, everyday life can feel like a constant uphill battle, not just for them, but...
Sep 8, 2025


Is your child already stressed about going back to school?
You’re not imagining it, and they’re not being dramatic. For many autistic and ADHD kids, the anxiety starts weeks before the first bell...
Aug 17, 2025


How To Help Your Child Prepare For School Emotionally
As September approaches, it’s tempting to focus on the practical side of getting ready for school, with new pens, fresh notebooks, and...
Aug 11, 2025


Feeling Calm vs. Being Regulated - Do you know the difference?
Recently, I have been looking back over some reports written about my son. I came across one that angered me as much today as it did 16...
Aug 8, 2025


Why Autistic/ADHD students find secondary school more challenging
Learn why autistic/ADHD pupils struggle in secondary school.
Aug 4, 2025


Why your autistic/ADHD teen might be extra sensitive
Why Is My Autistic or ADHD Teen So Sensitive Sometimes? Many parents notice that their autistic and/or ADHD teen seems extra sensitive to...
Jul 25, 2025


How to plan visits to friends and family this summer
Summer holidays often mean trips to visit family. While these visits can be filled with fun and connection, they also come with...
Jul 8, 2025


Autistic children & friendships outside of school
Many parents of autistic children notice something that can feel quite puzzling. Their child seems to get along well with certain...
Jun 18, 2025


Help your autistic child learn about who they are
Learning about who you are can be tricky for many people, but it can be especially hard for autistic children. Autistic children often...
Jun 4, 2025


Why an autism diagnosis still matters, even when the system is overwhelmed
Families often ask whether there is still any point in pursuing an autism diagnosis. With assessment waiting times stretching on for...
May 5, 2025


Why Being Honest About Progress Can Feel Risky
I’ve been helping a friend recently with their child’s EHC plan, and I’d forgotten just how disheartening that process can be. It’s...
Apr 14, 2025


Understanding Multiple Diagnoses: Looking at the Whole Child
You’ve waited months—sometimes years—for answers. And then suddenly, the diagnoses start coming in thick and fast. Just like buses, you...
Mar 24, 2025
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